Pat was born at home in Rochester in 1933 to Susan Elliot Mapes and Frank J. Houlihan. She and her younger sister Mary Jane were members of large extended families with whom they spent a great amount of time. Her mothers' family were among the first settlers of Jamestown, Virginia in 1607.
The Houlihans' immigrated from Ireland to Canada in 1841 and later to this country. In Rochester they were prominent businesses men in the late 1800s and later Public Servants. Pat's grandfather was a captain in the city fire department and was the inventor of the first fire helmet with a light.
Looking back in the 70s Pat and her grammar and high school friends felt growing up in the 19th ward had been one of their blessings. Pat went on to Syracuse University, where she was elected to the senior women's honorary, Et Pi Upsilon and earned her Bachelor's Degree.
She received a Master's of Social Work degree from the University of Buffalo. She was a field supervisor for the Smith College School for Social Work. As a social worker she was a staff member and Administrator for Monroe County Department of Human Services for 33 years. She taught at the University of Rochester and was a strong advocate for services to children and families through the Children's Alliance of Monroe County.
Pat was a founding member of the Monroe County Federation of Social Workers. She was instrumental in creating the first contract between the union and county government. Pat's interest in politics extended to her education to the pets in her life.
After retirement Pat was associated with a number of child advocacy groups. She was an advocate for the Home Based Preventive Services and served on the Children's Services Committee of Hillside Children's Center.
Most recently, Pat was associated with the sisters of St. Joseph who initiated a child care service for medically fragile infants, now known as Daystar. Working with this group and it's tiny "clients" and parents enriched Pats retirement years.
Pat loved being a helper in many different capacities, not the least of which was being an environmentalist and friend to all living creatures. Among these she counted many cherished pets and Lady Duck. A wild Mallard who was known to come to the front door.
Through her life Pat enjoyed painting and had a passion for painting pet portraits for friends. Her creative spirit was evident in the beautiful gardens she created wherever she lived.
Pat loved traveling, especially to France, which she visited many times. She visited New York City and reveled in the joys of Broadway musical and the intimate performances of Barbara Carroll and Andrea Marcovicci.
Pat was an avid reader and particularly enjoyed historical Literature and researching history.
Pat was grateful for the full life she enjoyed for 39 years with her partner Lynn Wickes, her family and many old and good friends. Her excellent medical care providers were a special gift.
Private burial to take place at Pittsford Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make a contribution may do so to:
Daystar or
Lollypop Farm.